Unit 9
Lesson 9.2

Comment tu te sens ?

How Are You Feeling?

Today you'll learn how to describe how you feel — both physically and emotionally. French has a very common reflexive structure 'se sentir' (to feel) that you'll hear every day, plus a set of adjectives covering everything from tired and worried to calm and happy. You'll also learn a crucial point: adjectives in French change form depending on whether the speaker is male or female. Camille and Lucas are at the office — Lucas has a big presentation and is not feeling his best!

Learning tips

Warm-up & Active Recall

Recap: In lesson 9.1 you learned 'avoir mal à' + definite article + body part. Remember the three contraction patterns: 'au' (masculine singular), 'à la' (feminine singular), 'aux' (plural), and 'à l'' (before a vowel). Quick check: how do you say 'my feet hurt' and 'she has a sore ear'?
WordMeaning
la têtethe head
le brasthe arm
la jambethe leg
la mainthe hand
le piedthe foot
le ventrethe stomach / belly
le dosthe back
l'œilthe eye
la bouchethe mouth
l'oreillethe ear

Dialog

Lucas arrives at the office looking exhausted — he has a big presentation that day and a persistent back pain. Camille encourages him with empathy and practical advice. The dialog demonstrates 'se sentir', 'avoir l'air', and a range of emotion adjectives with their gender forms.

🏢 Dans le bureau de Lucas — Camille arrive le matin et trouve Lucas l'air épuisé
Camille
Lucas, comment tu te sens ce matin ? Tu as l'air fatigué.
(Lucas, how you feel-yourself this morning? You have the-air tired.)
Lucas, how are you feeling this morning? You look tired.
Lucas
Je me sens vraiment mal. Je suis fatigué et j'ai une grande présentation aujourd'hui !
(I feel-myself really bad. I am tired and I-have a big presentation today!)
I feel really terrible. I'm tired and I have a big presentation today!
Camille
Tu es malade ? Tu as de la fièvre ou seulement de la douleur ?
(You are sick? You have some fever or only some pain?)
Are you ill? Do you have a fever or just pain?
Lucas
Non, pas de fièvre. Mais j'ai une douleur au dos depuis hier soir. Je suis très inquiet.
(No, no fever. But I-have a pain at-the back since yesterday evening. I am very worried.)
No fever. But I've had back pain since yesterday evening. I'm very worried.
☕ Camille prépare un café pour Lucas et s'assied en face de lui
Camille
Je comprends. Moi, avant une présentation, je me sens toujours nerveux... nerveuse !
(I understand. Me, before a presentation, I feel-myself always nervous... nervous!)
I understand. Before a presentation, I always feel nervous... (nervous — feminine form)!
Lucas
Toi aussi ? Mais tu sembles toujours tranquille et en bonne santé !
(You also? But you seem always calm and in good health!)
You too? But you always seem calm and in good health!
Camille
Je me sens contente quand je prépare bien. Essaie tes notes encore une fois.
(I feel-myself happy when I prepare well. Try your notes one more time.)
I feel happy when I've prepared well. Try going over your notes one more time.
Lucas
Tu as raison. Je suis un peu triste mais je ne vais pas être malade. Merci !
(You have reason. I am a bit sad but I am not going to be sick. Thank-you!)
You're right. I'm a little sad but I'm not going to be ill. Thank you!
Camille
Après la présentation, je suis sûre que tu vas te sentir soulagé. Bonne chance !
(After the presentation, I am sure that you are going to feel-yourself relieved. Good luck!)
After the presentation, I'm sure you'll feel relieved. Good luck!

Vocabulary

Active words

WordIPATranslationNote
se sentir/sə sɑ̃.tiʁ/to feel (reflexive)Reflexive verb — always used with a reflexive pronoun: 'je me sens', 'tu te sens', etc. Used for both physical and emotional feelings.
malade/ma.lad/ill / sickAdjective — same form for masculine and feminine: 'il est malade', 'elle est malade'. No gender change needed!
fatigué/fa.ti.ɡe/tiredMasculine form. Feminine: 'fatiguée' (add -e, the final 'é' becomes slightly longer). 'Je suis fatigué(e)' is extremely common.
en bonne santé/ɑ̃ bɔn sɑ̃.te/in good health / healthyFixed expression — never changes form. 'Être en bonne santé' = to be in good health. Opposite: 'en mauvaise santé'.
content/kɔ̃.tɑ̃/happy / pleased / gladMasculine form. Feminine: 'contente'. A very common, mild positive emotion — not as strong as 'heureux/heureuse' (very happy).
triste/tʁist/sadSame form for both genders — no change needed: 'il est triste', 'elle est triste'.
inquiet/ɛ̃.kjɛ/worried / anxiousMasculine form. Feminine: 'inquiète' — note the accent change. Pronounced /ɛ̃.kjɛ/ (m) and /ɛ̃.kjɛt/ (f).
nerveux/nɛʁ.vø/nervousMasculine form. Feminine: 'nerveuse' /nɛʁ.vøz/ — the -eux ending becomes -euse. Camille self-corrects in the dialog!
tranquille/tʁɑ̃.kil/calm / quiet / peacefulSame form for both genders: 'il est tranquille', 'elle est tranquille'. A very useful everyday adjective.
la douleur/la du.lœʁ/pain / acheFeminine noun. 'Avoir une douleur à...' = 'to have a pain in...'. More formal/medical than 'avoir mal à'.

Passive words

WordIPATranslationNote
épuisé/e.pɥi.ze/
stressé/stʁe.se/
soulagé/su.la.ʒe/
en forme/ɑ̃ fɔʁm/
déprimé/de.pʁi.me/
énervé/e.nɛʁ.ve/

Useful chunks

WordTranslation
je me sens bien / malI feel well / I feel bad
tu as l'air fatiguéyou look tired
comment tu te sens ?how are you feeling?
Pronunciation: Gender endings for adjectives: The masculine adjective often ends in a silent consonant: 'fatigué', 'nerveux', 'inquiet'. Adding the feminine -e or -euse activates that final consonant: 'fatiguée' (no change in sound), 'nerveuse' /nɛʁ.vøz/ (the 'z' sound appears), 'inquiète' /ɛ̃.kjɛt/ (the 't' is now heard). Pay attention to these pairs — they are the most common stumbling block for English speakers reading French aloud.

Grammar: Reflexive verb 'se sentir' conjugated with reflexive pronouns (je me sens, tu te sens...) + 'être' + emotion adjective with gender agreement (-e for feminine forms)

Sujetse sentirêtre + adjectif (m/f)
jeje me sens bien/malje suis content / contente
tutu te sens bien/maltu es triste / triste
il/elleil se sent bien / elle se sent malil est nerveux / elle est nerveuse
nousnous nous sentons biennous sommes fatigués / fatiguées
vousvous vous sentez bienvous êtes inquiet / inquiète
ils/ellesils se sentent malils sont tranquilles / elles sont tranquilles

This lesson covers two related grammar points. First, the reflexive verb 'se sentir': to conjugate it, you place the correct reflexive pronoun before the verb — 'je me sens', 'tu te sens', 'il/elle se sent', 'nous nous sentons', 'vous vous sentez', 'ils/elles se sentent'. You can follow 'se sentir' with an adverb ('bien', 'mal') or with an adjective ('je me sens fatigué'). Second, adjective gender agreement with 'être': most adjectives add a silent -e in the feminine form ('fatigué' → 'fatiguée', 'content' → 'contente', 'triste' → 'triste' — no change). Some have irregular feminine forms: 'nerveux' → 'nerveuse', 'inquiet' → 'inquiète'. The adjective must agree with the grammatical subject: a woman speaking about herself says 'je suis contente', 'je suis fatiguée', 'je me sens nerveuse'. A man says 'je suis content', 'je suis fatigué', 'je me sens nerveux'. In writing, the difference is always clear; in speech, listen carefully for the -euse and -ète endings.

Exercises

Fill in the Blanks

Choose the correct option from the brackets to complete each sentence.

  1. Je   très bien aujourd'hui — j'ai bien dormi ! (me sens / te sens / se sent)(subject is 'je' — which reflexive pronoun fits?)
  2. Elle est   parce qu'elle a beaucoup travaillé. (fatiguée / fatigué)(subject is 'elle' — does the adjective need a feminine ending?)
  3. Lucas est   avant sa grande présentation. (inquiet / inquiète)(subject is 'Lucas' = masculine — which form?)
  4. La   au dos est forte ce matin. (douleur / douleurs)(is 'douleur' singular or plural here?)
  5. Comment vous   après la réunion ? (vous sentez / te sens / me sens)(subject is 'vous' — which reflexive form?)

Grammar Application

Build a complete sentence from the prompt. Use the correct form of 'se sentir' or 'être' and apply gender agreement where indicated.

  1. il / se sentir / malade →  (il = masculine, use 'se sentir')
  2. elle / être / nerveux (agree!) →  (elle = feminine, change 'nerveux' accordingly)
  3. nous / se sentir / tranquille →  (nous = 1st person plural of 'se sentir')
  4. tu / être / content (female speaker) →  (female speaker saying 'content' — add feminine -e)
  5. elles / être / fatigué (agree!) →  (elles = feminine plural, 'fatigué' needs full agreement)

Translate into French

Translate each sentence into French. Pay attention to the correct reflexive pronoun and adjective gender.

  1. I feel sick today.
  2. She is sad and tired.
  3. How are you feeling?
  4. He looks nervous.
  5. We feel calm after the walk.

Build Your Own Sentence

Write 2–3 French sentences describing how you or someone you know feels today. Use 'se sentir' at least once and at least one emotion adjective with correct gender.

Takeaway

Use 'je me sens + adverb/adjective' to describe how you feel, and remember that adjectives must agree with the gender of the person they describe — 'nerveux' for men, 'nerveuse' for women.

Culture note: In France, 'comment tu vas ?' or 'ça va ?' is the standard informal greeting, but it's often rhetorical — a brief 'ça va, et toi ?' is the expected response even if you're not feeling great. A fuller answer like 'je me sens un peu fatigué' is reserved for close friends or when something is genuinely wrong. This is different from some cultures where 'how are you?' invites a detailed answer. In professional settings, 'vous allez bien ?' is the polite form — and here too, a concise positive reply is the social norm unless you're asked specifically.
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